Stuff vs. Memories

Stuff Do Not Memories Keep

Stuff doesn’t equate to your memories of the person who gave them to you or an event.  Getting rid of items with an emotional attachment can be very difficult – heart wrenching.  Consider carefully if you need the item or if you don’t want to let it go because you have the memory or an emotional attachment.  Ask yourself some questions:

1. When did I last use this it?

If you haven't used it in the last year, chances are you’re not going to in the next.

2. Will I need this it on a specific date in the near future?

If your best friend will be getting married in a couple of months, it might be wise to keep your punch bowl.  But if you are keeping a garage of full of furniture/household stuff for when your young children move out on their own, it’s probably time to free up the space and use your garage for its intended purpose – parking your car(s).  

3. Does it have a legal or tax purpose?

Paper stuff is the worst clutter enemy!  Go through your papers and keep only items that are really needed.  If you’re not sure what to keep or how long to keep paper stuff, consult your account or attorney.

4. How hard would it be to replace it again someday if I needed it?

If it’s priceless emotionally or historically, you might not want to keep it.  If it’s dime a dozen/easy to replace stuff get rid of it. 

5. In what way is this stuff making my life happier or better?

If it’s not making you happier, healthier, or better, it’s just taking up space and cluttering up your life.  Get rid of it.

If you’re not sure, take photos of the stuff for an album - that’ll give you a tangible memory to visit, and then put the stuff into organized storage.  Revisit your decision in 6 months.  If you really feel the need to keep it, don't fight it.  Find a non-clutter way to incorporate it into your life…    

Laura Anderson

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