If there is anything we need more than family and fun this time of year is the need laugh and be merry.
Don’t Forget To Giggle
The
Holidays should be a time of sharing love and joy with our family and
friends, honoring traditions, and creating new traditions. Often it can
be an overwhelming and stressful time. When my son was younger, my
husband and I decided to take control of our Holidays.
Between the three of us we had three families to visit: my husband’s
mother, my parents’, and my son needed to get to his father’s family
celebration. Each of these three living in complete opposite direction
of the other. Add to the mix that my husband & I both work, and we
wanted to have our own family celebration/tradition – it was a frazzled
time for the three of us. The key for putting the love, joy and
giggles back into our Holidays, has been in the planning. Here are some
of the things we try to remember and incorporate in our Holiday
planning. I hope it helps you, as well.
Don't over commit. Only
commit to what you can actually handle. Sit down and really reflect on
what’s important to you, and what’s realistic for your life
circumstances. You have permission to limit your obligations. You don't owe your Holidays to anyone.
Manage your time. For
many people, the Holidays are just one more thing to add to an already
busy schedule. This means things can get out of control really fast.
Use a calendar to keep track of Holiday events. Keep a “to do list” to
stay on track.
Be present. Be
sure to be in the moment. If you forget something, chances are nobody
will miss it. Don’t fret about perfection or imperfection. Cherish and
enjoy each and every second.
Be Grateful.
Expressing your gratitude is important for both your recipient and
you. Take the time to appreciate and acknowledge all of whom and what
you’re grateful for… That’s the best gift you could ever give.
Let it go. At
some point, you have to remember to keep things in perspective. Cut
yourself some slack. It's okay if you forget something. So what if you
forget to make the biscuits for the family dinner? Nobody will even
notice! You’re all together, and enjoying the Holiday cheer – that’s
what everyone will remember.
Remember, honor, and giggle – don’t forget the giggles. Holidays
may remind you of the loved ones who aren’t around anymore. Do
something active to celebrate their memory. In our family, we celebrate
by sharing stories, which ultimately leads to a beautiful symphony of
giggles…
Happy Holidays Everyone!
Happy Hanukkah!
Merry Christmas!
Happy Kwanzaa!
Laura Anderson
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